Get out your poster or pen and paper. Time to fill in those Want/Will/Won’t lists!
You want a better sex life?
One of the most helpful exercises I do with students and clients is a Want/Will/Won’t list, a way to understand what “better” looks like and what doesn’t fit into that goal. I’ve made a video with instructions on how to layout the columns here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xoYxd3E3UXU
Trouble is, people often bemoan their lack of ideas for each of the three columns saying to me, “I can’t think of that many sexual behaviors!?!?”
Sexplanations goes through more than 150 sex acts. MORE THAN 150! It’s not a comprehensive list, there are so many more interests and behaviors, but it’s certainly plenty of options strive for, agree to, or disregard. Want. Will. Won’t.
I, Dr. Lindsey Doe perform some of the sex acts and there’s photos for others but mainly words illustrate the concepts. It is after all the words I encourage people to write on their want/will/won’t lists. Pegging. Yoga. Heavy petting. Knife play.
A huge shout-out to Matthew Gaydos, the director/videographer/editor of Sexplanations who made this episode come to life! And another huge shout-out to our Patreon supporters who fund our sex edutainment. *clapping and cheering for all*
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