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“Sometimes, lifetimes are chosen to be with friends. And sometimes, one friend agrees to be off balance and the other balanced. One teaches stability, the other teaches spontaneity. Win-win, cool-cool.

Gets kind of wonky though, if either starts thinking they’re more important to the other, than the other is to them.

Every nut needs a cracker, and every cracker needs a nut, metaphorically”

It’s wise never to ask another for what you want.

No, don’t ask the Universe.

No, not even yourself.

Just give thanks, in advance, as if you already had whatever it is the “old-you” would have asked for.

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Sometimes a couple just needs to choose different paths for themselves and that’s ok. But too often we see the ugly divorce battles in the news like the current Christie Brinkley and ex-husband Peter Cook case, and we worry that we might face the same lengthy and expensive drawn out court  battles. But it doesn’t have to be like this. Many Attorneys, CPA’s, and Mental Health Professionals have adopted the Collaborative Divorce model which can ease the discomfort of divorce and is about working together towards a mutual separation and not about fighting each other to the bitter end. It is also less costly as it requires Read the rest of this entry »

The presumption, at all times and under all circumstances, should always be that you are good enough, worthy enough, and lovable enough. And that you are exactly the right kind of person, in the right place, at the right time. Otherwise, you wouldn’t have been instilled with such dreams in the first place. 

“When just starting out on a new journey, it’s only natural to feel vulnerable. After all, it may seem that you have much to lose. But may I remind you that never again, at any other point in your journey, will you have so much to gain as you will if you start today”

“It may seem a bit backwards for some, but the first step one might take towards rearranging the present circumstances of their life is to stop dwelling upon the present circumstances of their life. Second, they might start visualizing the circumstances they want, as if they already existed.”